I think about it in 2nd grade terms, “I like a person, I would like to see them again.
Only if he calls you the next day to make another date can you be really sure.And if you want to be Evan, stop being so freaking reductive.My longest relationship (2 years) was with a man who I was casually sleeping with, and we both accidentally fell in love with each other.This took 6 months for us to admit, because it shocked us so much.I feel that’s the respect I should give to another person.
And if they don’t mean anything to me, then it’s because I don’t want to interact with that person.
Dear Jean, I’m going to drop the dating coach bit for a second and just be a guy.
When I was dating prolifically, I’d be going out with two or three women at a time. But no matter what, I was looking to keep my options open, have fun, and sometimes get a little action.
I have sex just because I want to sometimes, and sometimes I’ll fall in love with that stranger.
I become friends with people and lay in wait for years because I love them (or just want them).
You need to start using some qualifiers in your columns: MOST women.